End of an Era
There isn’t room here to say everything I’m thinking. Or want to say. Or need to say. How could I fit everything about the 20-year journey of our lavender farm into one blog post? So much love, fun, beautiful flowers, pride, dreaming, wonderful farm visitors, hard work, dear farm workers, help from our very large and caring family and as with any phase of life some hard times too.
And now we enter the bittersweet time of saying goodbye.
Some of you might have seen the slightly cryptic message earlier this summer about us wanting to retire. For a couple months we met with, and talked to, and mulled over all comers to figure out who might be the best family to take the helm of living in the historic house on the property and running the lavender business.
Who had the skills, and energy and faithfulness to keep Seven Oaks Lavender Farm the place you all enjoy visiting every year? The answer turned out to be The Rinker Family! When we first sat down to talk with Katie and Jason, I started the conversation by saying, “Are you part of the Rinkers of Berryville?” Jason gave me a quizzical look and said yes, a bit warily. And I responded, “Well then we are sort of related.” It took us a minute to figure out Jason was a first cousin to my brother’s first wife, Kay, the mother of his two sons. Kismet!
Allow me to introduce The Rinker Family in their own words:
Hello! We are Jason and Katie Rinker! We are thrilled to be the new owners of Seven Oaks Lavender Farm. Continuing the legacy Deb and Edie started is an honor for us. We have seven children, four of whom still live at home; Hope 16, Matthew 14, Luke 12 and Lily 8. They can’t wait to become lavender farmers and bunny caretakers. We’ve always called Northern Virginia home (we were both born at Arlington hospital, five years apart). Growing up in Oakton and Vienna, we truly love this beautiful state. We have lived in Manassas for the past 20 years and the local community is really important to us.
We feel like we are living in a Hallmark movie – owning a lavender farm was never on our radar at least not on Jason’s. We came to see it on a whim, sure that it was something we would not actually do. When we pulled up, Deb immediately noted that our last name was Rinker and that her brother had married a Rinker. It turns out that we are related! Deb’s nephews are Jason’s second cousins. We decided right away that this was providential. Once we toured the farm and saw how beautiful it was, the wheels started turning and we couldn’t stop thinking about it.
Our dream is to continue what Deb, Bix and Edie began and to keep it a thriving family farm, with a few tweaks, but most importantly, a lot of that fragrant lavender! We really look forward to sharing this exciting new journey with all of you.
And back to Deb & Edie’s goodbye.
We are currently in a transitional time over the next month or two. We’re moving out of the home, which is the place I’ve lived the longest, all the while collecting a mountain of antiques apparently. We will be open here at the farm this weekend and next (October 19th/20th and 26th/27th) and then will be closing the farm and online farm shop for some time (TBA later) to help the Rinkers get settled in and up to speed. (By the way we are having a huge garage sale, with some of the aforementioned antiques the weekend of October 26th & 27th as well as 25% off in the farm shop and the online shop using code (FALL25) We hope you will come by to peruse and bid us a fond adieu.
All that said, you will probably see us around over next season, here and there, to help the Rinker Family have a smooth transition. It is our wish that you will welcome this new family to the farm and support them in their dream as you have with ours.
Any business is only as good as the percentage of devoted, kind and joyful patrons they have. And in this we have been very blessed.